Coaching that honors pleasure, education and offers real tools for change

Coaching is a specialized form of professional support designed to facilitate goal-oriented growth. Soleil’s coaching can help individuals and couples move toward greater clarity, connection, and fulfillment in their intimate lives.

Soleil offers coaching centered on sex and intimacy, providing a thoughtful, affirming space to explore what matters most to you.

Drawing on their background as a sex-positive practitioner, kink-informed specialist, and sex working-therapist, Soleil brings a rare depth of expertise and lived understanding to this work. Their training allows them to meet clients with both professional skill and genuine solidarity — without judgment, and without shame.

Whether you're navigating questions of desire, identity, relationship dynamics, or sexual wellness, Soleil is equipped to support you with warmth, discretion, and expertise.

Soleil accepts coaching clients throughout the United States.

MY COACHING SPACE IS……

If any of these needs or experiences fit what you’re seeking, let’s explore if we are a good fit for services. I work hard to practice from an anti-colonial lens, prioritizing access and affordability for historically marginalized populations. Services can be provided via video, phone, or in virtual reality.*

…challenging the white supremacist, heteronormative, mononormative, patriarchal systemic roots of our sex and relating

…a shifting paradigm, an erotic reset for all ages and identities

…a purging of shame and fear to find the creativity , playfulness and pleasure

…opening new doors within yourself and in community

… honoring pleasure and safety for all

…healing injured or traumatized parts (your body’s not broken, the systems are)

…sexual healing from a sex work-informed lens

…a liberation-centered path to reconnection with a partner or family

…re-envisioning relationship structures and community

…centering sexual/ erotic/ romantic expression as a core to well-being

…gender expansive, ace/ demi/ grey, kink/ fetish inclusive care

…technology ethically integrated into sexual expression and connection

…centering survivor rights, trans lives, sex worker lives, & sexual liberation

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I provide coaching around issues that would not require clinical care or higher acuity services. Some examples include polyamory/ RA coaching, kink support, general sexuality and relationship skills, professional coaching around confronting white supremacy and other roles of oppression, sex technology demos and exploration